Self

If we wish to change our circumstances, we must change our self first. If we wish to lead a team or organization, we should learn to lead our self first.

When we learn to manage our self in the best possible manner, people around us will automatically follow us, and with a combination of some other attributes, success will follow us as well. In short, self mastery is the DNA of life mastery.

How can we be in control of our self?

By controlling our thoughts and being responsible for our results.

Thoughts: The human mind is dynamic - thousands of thoughts come and go every day. Controlling thoughts implies being positive, in the present and focusing on the task in hand. Of course we should not lose sight of our goals, but being positive and in the present (and not in the past or future) will greatly enhance our efficiency and effectiveness, thus optimizing the results of our actions.

Responsibility: We are responsible for everything that happens in our life. Think about it. If some of us are not as successful as we deserve to be, it is because we have not been smart enough to capitalize on opportunities. Knowing that we are responsible increases our awareness and makes us think before we act. While we are responsible, we should also not forget that we have the power to overcome all challenges in life and achieve our goals. This wisdom will keep us going.

Being positive, focused and responsible will help us reach our goals much faster.